Sunday, August 4, 2019

Why don't either of you want to have a college education?

Justin Bieber:

When I had to move out of my last apartment after spending 5 months asking that someone, of the many people, who knew that I was telling the truth about the hidden, illegal cameras in that apartment corroborate it to the police, the property management's lawyer, or any one of the several other people whose names and contact information I gave and who could have stopped my being criminally victimized in my own home and who could have stopped the retaliatory eviction that was brought against me for objecting to the cameras, that was when the possibility that I would ever want to meet you in person or really be a part of your life was over.

I realize that the idea of caring about someone whom you don't like is a foreign concept to you, since you and the rest of the people who have abused me for so many years are used to having no fundamental concern even for those whom you claim to love.  It is one of the most disgusting things that I have finally had to recognize as being who you all are.

You personally are a vicious misogynist who believes every stereotype and chauvinist lie about women, particularly about sexual assault.  Your denial of responsibility and your investment in victim-blaming are so total that even after I was made homeless again, you felt you needed to make a permanent, public statement in support of accused gang-rapists, that you needed to turn that statement into a business.  You did this while victim-blaming me again for being criminally victimized by hidden, illegal cameras again in the shelter and the gym where I have to change my clothes, shower and use the toilet like EVERY OTHER PERSON ON THE PLANET.

That's what I have to say about you individually. What I have to say about your quick engagement and marriage of last year is that you don't seem happy.  You just don't.  It seems as if she's trying to make it something that it isn't, because she's been sitting there waiting for you for the past few years, and because Happy Married Woman is a role that women are encouraged to inhabit, and because she and a lot of other people think of being married as a competition with other people and with other couples.  Being lonely and bored and feeling rejected and also feeling secretly guilty because you know that you are torturing an impoverished person with a gang of vicious, wealth bullies, needing or wanting the "unconditional love" of someone who doesn't question anything you do and who has thought of nothing other than marrying you since she was a teenager; these things aren't a good framework for marriage.

Hailey Bieber:

I apologize for being skeptical of the times when you have tried to be positive.  It's not bad for anyone to have a cause, although you'll be more effective if you chose one or a few causes, particularly since you are young and have your own life to sort out.