What you do when you live in the dark

-Put your shirt on backwards.

-Put your bra and/or underwear on inside out.

-Drop at least one bottle of soap, shampoo, conditioner or shaving gel every time that you take a shower.

-Lose your razor when you're trying to shave.  Get out of the shower, so that water falls on the floor and you have to clean it up later.  Put on a towel.  Turn on the light.  Find the razor.  Turn off the light.  Put the towel back on the hook.  Get back into the shower, so that more water falls on the floor that you have to clean up later.  Resume shaving in the dark.

-Turn off the lights outside the bathroom as well as in the bathroom when you have to use the toilet, change your clothes or shower, so that light doesn't get in around the closed door.  Put a towel at the bottom of the door to block outside light.

-Know that neither these things, nor any of the other things that you now do automatically to try to protect your privacy in the 3rd apartment where you've been criminally victimized by voyeurism, nor anything else that you ever do or don't do stops the victim-blaming or the slut-shaming or convinces anyone who knows what's going on to corroborate it.