Discussion of sexual harassment for hyper-privileged, male and female dummies

Let's take the sexual connotation out of it, since women are so dehumanized to you that you can't understand this discussion with the connotation.

What if you wore a hat and someone decided to talk about it for the rest of your life?  Every time that person talked about you, he or she mentioned the hat.  When you tried to talk about something else, the person responded with a knowing smile and said "How's your hat?" When you talked to other people, the person shouted over your conversations, yelling "The HAT!"

Would that person annoy you?  Would he or she strike you as being even one of these things:


-smart

-funny

-interesting

-creative

-original

-nice

-attractive

-verbally gifted

-someone whom you'd want to spend time with

-someone whose treatment of you could be explained as the result of liking you


How would you deal with that person? What if everything that you said was responded to the same way, year after year?

What if a group of people treated you that way? How would you feel about them?  How would you feel about your life? Do you think you'd feel hopeful that you could have the life you wanted?

Would you take the hat off? How would you feel about having to do that because those people wouldn't leave you alone about it? Would you like those people a lot?

What if you couldn't take the hat off?  How would you feel?

What if many of the people who shouted "THE HAT" at you everywhere wore the same hat and went out of their way to show it off but were never treated the way that you were treated? How would you feel about them?